One thing can lead to an unhappy first date very easily if you are not careful. To avoid that, you should know about things that guys should never do on a first date. We women are very sensitive sometimes, so some actions and words might offend us easily. With these 10 tips, I believe that men out there will find a better way to start their first date. Also, these tips apply to every single date not just the first one. Remember guys, if you succeed your first date, there will be more to come. Follow the tips below and get ready to have fun and memorable dates with the woman you like!
1. Turn Up Late
NEVER EVER BE LATE. On the first date, and you turn up late keeping your lady waiting? Boy don’t let that happen. If a woman who takes hours to get ready is on time, you have no excuse to be late. To avoid being late, you have to make sure that you have all time in the world on that day. Leave your place at least 30 minutes early so that the traffic or other things won’t keep you late.
2. Go Unwell-Dressed
This is also something important because looks do matter, accept this fact. No you don’t have to wear suit and tie and bath with perfume. There are men who do not care to look nice on their first date, from head to toe. Beard that haven’t shaved for weeks or greasy clothes are not pleasant things to be seen on a date. And imagine you don’t dress nice and turn up late, yes imagine that. First impression lasts for a long time, make sure to maintain that. Not too casual, not too formal, and please don’t dress weird.
3. Boasting Around
A person who keeps on talking about himself is a very annoying individual on earth, and it applies to any gender. Even if you are smart, fit, and handsome, don’t talk about about your grades and 6 packs too much. A date is supposed to be an occasion for both of you to get to know each other. Therefore, the topics should be about both of you. Well, my best friend once went on a date with this guy who couldn’t stop talking about his trip and education abroad. Clearly, there was no second date.
4. Agree With Everything She Says
Smart women don’t want to be agreed with all the time, remember that. There are certain things that you can say no and correct her as well, but not to the point of too much. Just because you like her does not mean you have to agree with her all the time. That my friend, is called spoiling. If you get into a relationship with the woman you dated with, she would say you change if you don’t agree with her anymore. There are ways to agree but to express your idea at the same time. Don’t keep on nodding and saying yes even to things that you think is incorrect.
5. Talk About His Bed Experiences
Never ever mention about how good you are in bed to a girl on a first date, even if you really are. Well, you don’t have to let the girl you go on a date with know how many girls you have slept with. And you don’t have to brag about how good you are in convincing girls to share bed with you as well. That is just so wrong on so many levels brother. No woman will continue a second date with you if you do that.
6. Get Drunk
Who would want to go on a date with a guy who cannot control his drinking? No matter if you are good or bad at it, never drink too much on a date. A glass of red wine will do, don’t drunk yourself and mess things up.
7. Point Out Her Flaws
You have to balance between compliment and criticism. Do not compliment her too much, she will think it is not honest and you want something from her. Also, do not criticize her to the point her self-esteem is deadly dropped as well. It is a good thing to make sure that she feels good with her on a first date. She might not know how to use chopsticks and stuffs, but remember to not make fun of her flaws.
8. Crib About Things
No, don’t be that man who hates everything in the world both during first date and in general. There are individuals who just don’t like anything around them. Don’t be grumpy, and cribs about things that you hate. That will lead to a rough and boring conversation. Women like nice guys, so be optimistic and look at the world in a brighter side even if it’s not.
9. Talk About Exes
This is a no no my friend. Thou shall never talk about exes during first date, if the question is not asked. But one way or another, try to avoid mentioning and talking about your exes. Neither compliment nor criticize your ex, just leave the person in the past. You go on this date for a reason, leave the ex thing behind if you’re ready to move on.
10. Go Dutch
It is true that some women don’t like men to pay the bill for her. However, guys should be firm and insist to pay if it is the first time you meet her. You can provide an offer that link to a second date that she can pay in the next one. That does not only give yourself a chance to second date but also show your responsibility as well.